Creating Conscious, Healthy, Evolving Relationships

Addressing the How and Why of Being in Relationships, Love, Connection, and Belonging

Through Transforming Relationships, our mission is to guide individuals and couples to become conscious of what stops them from achieving connection and belonging in their relationships and then, how to consciously transform.

Love is the engine of the universe, and it is built in our human system at all levels of biological, neurological, mental, emotional activities. Love exists in all our connections and relationships.

Everything is Love​

What is Transforming Relationships?

The vision of Transforming Relationships is to help participants reimagine their journey through life authentically, consciously, and powerfully in connection with themselves and others.

  • Becoming Conscious

    We use a meta-psychological perspective that goes beyond conventional psychology to examine our past to understand our present circumstances before we address what we want in our future.  This includes exploring how our beliefs about relationships are shaped. We examine the legacies passed down to us through our families and the intergenerational experiences of unresolved traumas. We look into the social-cultural influences that further impact our families and our beliefs about being in a relationship.

  • Consciously Transform

    Transforming relationships examines the hidden, unconscious beliefs that have led us to sabotage ourselves in relationships and Consciously Transforms these patterns.

    We do this by courageously, consciously looking deeply into the conflicts and patterns we perpetuate in our relationships, with ourselves, and with others.

    Transforming Relationships brings these unconscious oppositional beliefs to awareness, intelligently transforms them by dissolving the oppositions and conflicts, and aligns them with conscious harmony for ourselves and others.

  • Transform, Transmute, Transfigure

    Transforming relationships gives you tools to consciously transform, transmute, and transfigure that which no longer serves you.

    By delving into the deeper process of how things change, we help you to consciously remove what no longer works, stabilize and preserve what does, and create something more elevated for what you want for yourself and your relationships.

What does this process look like?

Testimonials

  • “Engaging in and with this program will fundamentally shift your perspective on relationships, from family relationships to intimate relationships and everything in between.”

    — Deb

  • "TR changed me. It revealed my unknown assumptions, and challenged why I do certain things. You can't unsee what you have seen. It affected my relationships because others felt that change in me."

    — B, Austin, TX

  • "My biggest takeaway from the program (apart from the content) was - a deep acknowledgement of myself - their program is eye-opening, sometimes confronting, always transformative and conducted with love and kindness and a desire to serve our growth. I recommend it for anyone wanting to deepen their relationship to them self and to others."

    — Shane, USA

  • The last module landed with quite a thud …and I’m noticing that I haven’t had a lot of time in the last few weeks to really process what is coming up. The homework has been a helpful reflection process, however I know that there’s more time and space that I clearly need to sit with what’s surfacing.

    - BT Australia

  • What I really loved overall was how affirming the program was - somewhere along the line I seemed to settle deeply into an acceptance of myself. The acceptance was already there I think - and certainly I have been working on it for many, many years - yet somehow in the program something went ‘clink’ (sorry, it was the best description I could think of) and I left that session (7 or 8??) with a deep, genuine, acceptance of myself. That is worth more than anything else I could have learnt.

    - LL, USA

  • What Caroline Shahbaz doesn’t know about the unconscious dynamics that play out in relationships is simply not worth knowing. Engaging in and with this program will fundamentally shift your perspective on relationships, from family relationships to intimate relationships and everything in between.

    - Deb, Australia

  • Transforming Relationships program exceeded my expectations in many regards – especially in the depth of information supplied. Caroline was terrific at delivering and presenting the information. I liked that the course included exercises and unassisted assignments, which provoked deep thoughts, honest and challenging self-evaluation. The assignments were where I discovered and unraveled valuable insights about myself. I have learned a lot from the course, and I am absolutely sure that I can apply everything I have learned to handle and enhance interpersonal relationships.

    - Galya, UAE